Nursing homes are supposed to be a safe haven but this is not always the case. Your loved one has experienced nursing home abuse, and now you are trying to take steps to move past this. The following guide will help you move forward and help your loved one recuperate from this ordeal.
The Legal Step
One of the most important steps to take is to contact experienced attorneys. You want to make sure the attorney you hire has dealt with this type of case before so that he or she is helpful to you.
Taking this step should ensure that your family has enough revenue to cover some of the expenses related to recovery. Healing requires more than money, but it is definitely a tool you want to have during this process. A good lawyer should give you advice or recommendations to help your loved one.
Understand the Complexity
Listen to advice, but keep in mind that recovering from abuse is different for each person. There are various types of abuse and each could affect a person in a unique way. It should also be noted that each person copes with their abuse differently, which means that you have to approach this issue carefully.
You want to vary your approach and accept when a particular treatment is not working for your loved one. You also need to accept your loved one’s coping abilities, and be patient with him or her. Make sure to communicate some of these thoughts to your loved one. It is easy for people to think something is wrong with them when recovery takes some time, so help your loved one fight any feelings of guilt.
Steps Toward Tranquility
It is important that your loved one and your family commit to the recovery process. One thing that a psychiatrist and the family has to work on is blame. It may sound far-fetched, but many abused seniors end up blaming themselves for the abuse.
Some think that it is their fault for not speaking up sooner or for not fighting back, which are unhealthy thoughts. Mental recovery is just one aspect of recover; physical therapy may also be necessary. Hopefully, you have worked with a lawyer to make sure you have enough revenue to cover these costs so you do not burden yourself or family member.
Recovery is not simple and will take time, so you have to be patient. You can start looking for a new nursing home facility once you are able to say that your loved one has fully or partially recovered. Of course, you can choose to stay in the same facility as the abuser has probably been fired, but the place holds memories that your loved one may not want to be reminded of.
It is important that you talk to your loved one when you are looking for a new facility, and make sure that he or she is ready to try a new place.
As you look for a new facility, the Law Office of Matthew L. Sharp says that you can reduce the chances of this happening again by “choosing a nursing home facility or home health provider that is adequately staffed, promptly responds and communicates with patients and their families, has safe and accessible bathing facilities, and follows necessary safety guidelines.”
A loved one who needs more time could also just hire a live-in nurse to take care of his or her needs for the time being. Make sure that you give yourself time to recover as well because this was a traumatic experience for everyone involved. It is okay if it is hard to trust another facility or even a specific caretaker after this experience, but, with time, you can make this step.
Ryan Yarbrough is a small business consultant, speaker, and the manager at Davis Financial Services, a small business consulting firm.